“Nyfikenhet har get upphov till
många underliga sängkamrater”
I don’t know about you – but for me this quote is spot on … can’t say I have been very curious when it comes to partners and sex, but when it happened *smile
I wouldn’t maybe call them bedmates, for me it has been nearly only about lovers. But there has been a few bedmates too, mostly females – but even a few male.
Never been married, I think mostly because my mum’s marriages (4) never lasted and also that 95% the people I know well isn’t today with the person they married the first time around. Very few has proven that marriage works. Also I have been to busy with my work, that has made me move around quite often for nearly 28 years of my adult life. But even if I sound cynical, I believe in love.
I have 2 fantastic engagements behind me, both on 8 years .. with 2 very different men, but so fantastic in their personality and against me. First finance was Hans Joachim …. Germany diesel engine developer with VW, we meet 1978. Second man was Torbjörn, wonderful Swedish man … and so good looking. We met in 1989, when I was still living with another man, but under separation.
Before, in between and after my engagements had I have some fantastic and passionate relationships and I had some less fantastic, a few I have introduced you to – they have all together made me to the woman I’m today in a relationship. So thankful for them all.
After my cancer journey, relationship hasn’t been very high up on my “bucket list” – mostly because of the problems and aftermaths it has given me. Do I miss being in a relationship, not really – but there is times.I have my friends and they are far more important … and I have shared bed with nearly all of them *smile
But there is nothing so wonderful as being enamored and plus it’s the worlds’s best diet too. *smile